When T mentioned that she has cried a few times in my sessions (she held it in but I could tell by the way her voice changed) I really wish I had asked her whY types of things caused her to cry and why. Did she cry because somebody hurt me, because she felt bad that I felt the need to hold back my own emotions, or because I touched on something that triggered an experience in her life, it even because of her maternal transference (which we never once discussed).

When Emdr T appeared to cry last week, was it because I was crying or because you put yourself in my shoes of losing a parent like I am?