My T would agree with you. He tears up hearing me talk about previous T’s that either created fake transference or those who were so distant. All of them blamed me or my trauma for the lack of progress. Current T is the opposite of everything you listed. He is genuine, warm, compassionate, open, human, REAL... and I have healed so much more in significantly less time and, most importantly, with far less pain and anguish. There are a few good ones out there. I just wish I could clone mine and pass him around PC some days when I hear about all the bad T’s.