These are words I felt like saying to my husband this morning. I didn't, thankfully. I felt so irate and can't find the trigger. He made breakfast, and complained about our newspaper which is worthless now. I made ineffectual comments that were meant to express my discomfort when I hear complaints, but stop short of starting arguments or being so blunt as to say "stop complaining". We were then sitting quietly and I suddenly wanted to say, " I'm sorry I'm not who you want me to be today" (sarcastically). Disturbing. Any ideas where this kind of thing springs out of? Is this indirect response to something vague experienced by many others?