Oh no. I can feel myself becoming furious on your behalf...
So, let's not think about the reaction of the ex-hubby (vile) and current boyfriend (stupid)...
This subject hits me in a sore spot, as I've also endured stalking (in a workplace, and for years). I reported him eventually, but the action taken in no way fitted the crime.
I really think that if people haven't experienced it, they have NO IDEA what it's like.
You're not alone!