I once was doing a 20 minute free first call with a T to see if they would be a good fit and if I should make a first appointment. I was briefly describing one of my main anxiety issues (I hadn’t wanted to, but she had pushed me to). After I finished briefly telling her, she said, “Wow, that must put a real crimp in your sex life!!” and laughed. Needless to say, she was not the right T for me.