Married almost 15 years & Spouse just announced he wants a trial separation. We don’t argue or fight. We have 2 kids ages 7 & 9. I stay home with kids. He works from home with his job. He said it was because he’s hollow inside and overall not happy with his life and thinks he needs space to live without the kids and I to be able to figure himself out. He says he’s never cheated and has no relationships with anyone else.
He says he’s willing to try to save marriage and go to marriage counseling.... but I secretly logged into his iPad and saw that he registered for Tinder and Bumble hours after he only just dropped the trial separation bomb on me. He also set up an appointment to go look at an apartment...... So now I’m paranoid he’s going to sabotage trying to work on our marriage by already registering for these kinds of sites & looking at apartment. HE DOESNT KNOW THAT I KNOW HE SIGNED UP TO THESE SITES AND LOOKED AT AN APARTMENT & he hasn’t told me he has. :-(