I wonder if one of the reasons why most of Western people struggle so often as to what setting boundaries regards is our Christian cultural background.
I say it with respect for the good part this culture, that is my own one, involves. I do admit that I admire of that idea of loving the others as we love ourselves and all that concept of feeling guilty is needed to be a better person. But, maybe we took it to the extreme and sometimes when we fail or cannot sort of accomplish these principles, the weight of failure and feeling of guiltiness is so hard that we end up feeling kind of selfish if we see us force to set boundaries.

I’m telling this because I often feel bad with myself when I have to make clear my rights or the way I want to be treat. I’m not sure. Feel like if what I sort of have in the ADN is to take in the situation and forgive. It’s kind of what it’s supposed from a good person, right?