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Jan 19, 2020, 01:02 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
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and I had quite a time getting others to see it. And if they did see it they distanced instead of actually doing something about it.
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What did you expect them to be able to do & why did you expect them to be able to do it?
Do you think they had a right to make their own choices about whether they could accomplish anything by getting involved? Distancing is sometimes the best choice rather than adding useless input to the already existing drama when they KNOW there is nothing they can do to change anything. That in its own way validates just how bad it was. It SEEMS LIKE they saw it & you just didn't acknowledge they saw it because they didn't do anything to help you.
Even your lawyer basically told you to just walk away with what you could get & that pursuing a law suit would be way too costly & wouldn't get you what you wanted anyway.
Sometimes the choices we make aren't easy but when we do them with OUR OWN best interest involved, being satisfied is our best option.
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Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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