I dated a guy he said he had a daughter but her mom moved out of state and he tried everything , even hired a detective to find her. He was a great guy , everyone thought so, eventually he moved into my home .. about 4 months later he called me at work and said he just left court , he had lied and had been dodging the mom , had never paid child support.. his daughter was 6 he was complaining about the court ordered child support amount which he said would effect what he was paying living together.

I literally couldn’t speak. I hung up.

I went home and exploded , I didn’t care that he had a child, he hid from her for 6 years , did not financially support his child at all , saw her once or twice after she was born.

It was the end, I forced him to get out.