I understand Your struggles! I don't think there's a specific Answer for it, though. He's working on it so what you can do right now i just be patient and perhaps work on yourself as well since You're struggling with Codependency Yourself. I am sure that you'll BOTH come out stronger afte rthis! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Roxanne0811, your Family, your Friends, your Friend and ALL of Your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!