I didn't mean for this thread of mine to turn into my own saga about my challenge with my older sister. I appreciate the responses and different opinions. Things definitly got toxic, very toxic, but I did not expect her to choose to list all the withdrawls she took from my mother's money/bank account and say it was me when she KNEW that was not true. Basically five years of her withdrawing money from a joint account she set up where SHE had access to my mother's money and she blames ME for a lot of the withdrawls she did herself. That's just horrible. This isn't some stranger, it's my own sister.