A member posted this in another thread and I think it would be a good book for you to get and read too. When a person grows up with an alcoholic parent that's growing up with an immature parent and it can leave long lasting affects on a person. I think it would help you to really understand YOUR own unmet needs so you don't keep ending up reaching out in a relationship that's just never going to fill YOUR needs.
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Pare... - Kindle