Hi guys, thanks for all your replies so far, i am going to give you a little bit more information on why things have gotten so messy.

It first started about 4 years ago, when we found out we were pregnant with our first, we wasn't anywhere near prepared so my mom offered to take a loan out for us providing we agreed to pay it back, The loan was for 6000 pounds. My mom and Dad had 3000 and we had the other 3000. It was agreed we would pay half of the monthly repayment until it was settled. Which he always has, bar missing one or 2 payments due to job changes ect. But has always caught up quickly.

Around the same time my mom became a victim of identity fraud. She had several loans took out in her name totalling around 2000 pounds. My partner was immediately the one in the firing line. The police were involved and completed all the investigations and was unable to trace the culprit. But my partner offered to pay towards the debt as he didn't want my mom and dad to struggle. It was proven it wasn't him but they still accuse him to this day.

We did split up for a few weeks over this as until the police completed there investigations I was unsure about what or who to believe. We then got back together even tho my mom and dad were dead against it.

As mentioned previously things were always pretty good. We had our ups and down but we were never unhappy.

But recently last year he became very distant and started suffering with depression, I have to admit i wasn't much help to him as i didn't really know what to do. But i found out during this time he began speaking to another woman. It only went on for 2 weeks and they never met and nothing was ever physical. But none the less it upset me massively.

I was however prepared to get past it and we worked things out.

A month or 2 went by and things didn't realty seem the greatest so I decided that I was going to move back to my moms and the relationship ended.

After the relationship ended we argued a little and ill hold my hands up, i told him he couldn't see our daughters unless he took me to court. So he did.

Ever since he took me to court for access, my family have been extremely bitter and are trying to convince me he wanted to take the kids off me. But I explained to them that he was only petitioning for access not custody but they still have there own opinions.

Skipping forward to now, we recently started talking again after nearly 3 months.

He has told me he misses me and that the time we have spent apart he has realised he lost the best thing that ever happened to him. He has told me that he wants me back but not right away. He wants to spend time with me. Hes signed up to multiple therapy sessions. Including; CBT, Addressing Controlling Behaviour, NPD, Managing Relationships effectively.

He has said that he wants me to be able to see him changing before we even contemplate starting our relationship again. He doesn't want me to rush into being back with him and that all he wants right now is for me to support him on his journey.

I have known this man for nearly 5 years.

I really do love him and I would like nothing more than to have our little family back together again. Apart of me really wants to see him become a better man and knowing he's doing it for me and our daughters gives me a great sense of proudness.

My mom and dad basically said that if i go back to him then the will not talk or see us again. This upsets me because i love my mom and dad. But I love him too.

I am currently living with my parents, they do not financially support me and neither do they help with childcare. Too be honest they treat me like im 15. They always want to know where I am, who im with or where im going.

Im just so torn and confused