katt,

usually traumatic things (when they do find their way "out") are just blurted...quickly. that's what happened with me when i was a younger woman. i was going to a p'doc for meds only...depression/anxiety. i was sitting in his office and blurt! he immediately scheduled me with a counselor in his office.

it's what you do with the information now that it's been blurted...often honey, that's the beginning of true healing.

sweet, safe hugs for you miss ((((((((((((((((( katt ))))))))))))))))

kd