I have for a very long time claimed to be bi-sexual. Many times I wondered if I was really gay and just fighting it and now it is driving me nuts because I truly do not know. The only relationship that ever was truly emotionally fullfilling was with a woman but at the same time, it was never sexual. A relationship with men has never been emotionally fullfilling but I find myself rushing into sex. I have slept with woman before but the ones that I truly cared about, I would not rush into a sexual relationship. So I am really truly confused. Have I been fooling myself this whole time. Someone asked me the other day if I was gay and I have to say I was surprised. I asked a few of my friends why would someone ask me that and almost all of them agreed that when they first met me that they thought I was gay and not because I look like I am butch but just because there is something about me. Even my gay friends thought I was gay and still think I am in the closet. Please help me. How do I truly know if I am or if I am not?