((Razz)),
I think the fact that you waited several days, looked for standards online, and presented the issue here on PC for feedback demonstrates that you are not making rash decisions. I think in the earlier post, Alex made a very good argument for why he may have asked SOME of the questions he asked. I also think Alex makes a good point of highlighting that what we FEEL and how we individually INTERPRET a situation both during and after an exchange may be totally different than what the other party felt, interpreted or experienced during the exchange.

Razz, I think you are being open-minded and that you are taking the potential impact of your complaint seriously. If at this point you are unsure, you did the adult thing to do. You called the Ethnics board, and stated that you were having some second thoughts about your complaint and asked the staff member to hold your complaint for the time being. In my opinion you have acted appropriately.

As for going back to him, that is totally up to you. From your posts here you seem to need some closure to this concern. Maybe it would be good for you to go. Telling him how uncomfortable you felt during your appointment and the fact that after reviewing the professional standards YOU ARE STILL REALLY UNCOMFORTABLE with his actions. If you think hearing his response and his rationale will help you close this issue, I say do it. If hearing what he has to say is not important to you, cancel and move on to your new therapist.

Good luck. I think you are handling this difficult situation appropriately.