Hi I was hoping to get some feedback and how to approach treatment for a 19 year old male teen and the best options to find the right Dr and treatment.

This is my GF's son and they have really not found good care from providers. Here is a script see you in 30 days. Oh here are some good therapist BUT not real collaborative plan and compassion. Well I took charge of doing the legwork since I was diagnosed with BPD long time ago and understand the challenges with find the right care. Fortunately I found it long after the fact though.

So my question is.

What are good things to look for and ask for in a provider?

Any success stories of things that work better than others?

A- he is on Lexapro and Abilify which in my opinion seems a little off.