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Originally Posted by MistressStayc
I am submissive and live the lifestyle as well...yes the name is an ironic joke....I disagree completely to what you are saying here. As a dominant it is not your prerogative to take as many subs as you wish unless your submissive knew this and agreed to this when you started your dynamic. Changing the dynamic from what was agreed upon initially takes both of you to do.
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I certainly take a submissives input into account when making such decisions, but if I deem something is good for everyone involved I would probably go ahead with it.
He knew for five years that I was grooming to become a Domme. I was even considering doing it professionally. He knew up front in the beginning what I was and what I needed. We had long discussions about this in the very beginning. I saw no reason why he should object. If his objection is strictly out of jealousy and no other reason...yeah, I'm gonna ignore that because there is simply no room in the lifestyle for jealousy. It caught me completely off guard.