i'm glad you called her.
anoher thing to consider is that you might be charged for the times you didn't go since she didn't know about them.
just fyi.
but she may or not be able to call - may be busy or on call or something.
i am sure i will be going to mine next week, even tho she will be gone after that... i'll do like aways and pretend everything's fine in person and then cry at home.
hope you can come to some conclusion.
kiya