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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Thing is, she told you before all this that she is apathetic, maybe aromantic and asexual. So were you trying to change her into something she is not? It's kind of like trying to date someone who tells you they prefer the same sex, and then trying to get them to change their entire sexual orientation, you know? Some things in people just cannot be changed, especially something that is fundamental.
I would let this person go. Don't contact her again, it would be harassing her at that point. But maybe think about your own motives here and what you were trying to accomplish with someone who told you these things about herself.
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I should mention that, when I met her, it was me she was into. She would praise me for who I was and my looks, going as far as saying "I've converted a lesbian to bisexual" We clicked because we had so much in common, and understood each other's humor. I had no intention in changing her, I liked her for who she is, and I was fully willing to work with her for who she is. However, I understand where everyone is coming from. I appreciate all the help thus far. Really means a lot.