are you saying that dating is not commited? listen, just because i dont put myself in "god's house" in a white dress does not mean im commited to my relationship. sacrifice is not needed for a successful relationship and if you think it is, maybe you shouldnt be IN a relationship.

being married does not make you more knowledgable or more wise than anyone dating. doesnt make you more commited, doesnt mean you wont cheat, doesnt mean you wont fight or hit or have horrible problems. in fact, it doesnt even mean that youre right for each other. im done with this thread. its not my fault that you wont look at it from another point of view. this thread has had so many logical fallacies, ive lost count.

if a mod is reading this right now, shut down this thread. its being controlled by people with specific points of view who will not allow any other views to be considered. this is just becoming rediculous. what the hell happened to open mindedness? maybe if people would stop to realize that their opinions of themselves might be a little skewed, things wouldnt be "problems" anymore.

if your husband likes porn better than you, GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! thats my point. stop trying to change people because IT DOESNT WORK. they wont change unless they want to. and if you don't like them the way they are, then dont be with them. and if you realize that people change and their tastes change, then you wouldnt have any problems like that.