H so far will not. He says he will do marriage counseling but not until after my trauma therapy. H has some really crazy ideas of what therapy is/isn’t and what it will do too. He gets really mad that I like T and look forward to our time together. H thinks a T’s job is to break you down into nothing and then put you together again. He also thinks that therapy will make me a girly girl and that he knows I have healed when I am wearing pink and doing my hair and nails.
H says he had a normal/healthy childhood but many of his behaviors as well as those of his brother and sister suggest he is not telling me (or himself) something.