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Originally Posted by Omers
H so far will not. He says he will do marriage counseling but not until after my trauma therapy. H has some really crazy ideas of what therapy is/isn’t and what it will do too. He gets really mad that I like T and look forward to our time together. H thinks a T’s job is to break you down into nothing and then put you together again. He also thinks that therapy will make me a girly girl and that he knows I have healed when I am wearing pink and doing my hair and nails.
H says he had a normal/healthy childhood but many of his behaviors as well as those of his brother and sister suggest he is not telling me (or himself) something.
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Hugs. This all sounds awful. Are you naturally a “girly girl” and H is waiting for you to get back to the way you are normally? Or does he want you to be something you’re not??
I totally understand what you said earlier about not having DID, but going through regression at times. I went through this too in Oct/Nov as more memories started coming back (I have traumatic amnesia).
Fortunately my closest supports (Dad and close friend) tried their best to understand what was going on with me. But I also feel lucky that because I don’t have a partner, I was able to have alone time to deal with it. It must be really challenging having H around when he doesn’t understand your childlike states
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