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Fuzzybear · Jan 25, 2020 at 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Purple,Violet,Blue

Yes, I've had therapists who made me feel that way. In my case, I had complicated issues around food and body image. I really felt that I could have liked my body - even though it wasn't as thin as the media images around me suggested it should be - with help from the t. Disastrously, she seemed to agree that I should lose weight. I was devastated.

I'm sure you're not ugly. You don't have to be classically handsome to be loved.

I've had a therapist who made me feel that way also. I too had some complicated issues around food and body image. Grrrrr… that T.

I'm also sure you are not ugly and are loveable.

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re harsh inner critics and issues around food and body image. I do not know how to multi quote

If I knew how to multi quote I would quote both posts, the OP's post as well.. please forgive my paws (and my species

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I am also sure that you (and nobody in this thread) are not ''the only one that can't be helped''... Lies such as this usually are the result of ongoing abuse and a harsh inner critic which has internalised the cruel lies of others who put good people down in order to feel better about themselves and/or are physically violent. People like that are very ''sad'' and cruel people and often are..... difficult to help, unless they start to own some of their stuff instead of dumping it on innocent others.