Is that the same person you were meeting in absence of a therapist? Was she always this way when just meeting to chat or did she become more distant in her new role? Is this therapy more goal oriented or one day at a time? Maybe ask her what goals should you set and ask if she can provide more elaborate understanding of your needs? Personally I’d not necessarilly want t to be all lovey dovey. Does she know that you want more loving approach?

Some people greatly benefit from making comparisons to how someone else might handle something or how society is effecting something or what’s common for others. Personaly I find it helpful. Your t might not know that you prefer she doesn’t do that. Could you email her if not address face to face