((((((((BJ))))))))


i know it doesn't feel like it right now but you will get thru this. and your T is right...one day at a time. and just remember...it's not you who's done anything wrong here! BJ...forgive me if you think it's out of order for me to say this but maybe he's depressed and this is his way of reacting to it. a lot of men don't own when they're depressed and don't know how to deal with it. and i'm just saying this to try and hit home to you that it's not your fault. a man will do what he will...doesn't mean you're to blame in any way.

sorry if anything in this post has upset you and please feel free to tell me to mind my own, i'm just a bit of a klutz at trying to help sometimes...but it's just because i care.

be gentle to yourself and don't forget...we all care about you here.