OP you really nailed it , although I wish this wasn’t a real problem.

I have reconnected with lots of old friends on Facebook , we are scattered all over the country, if we lived closer I know we would go out/ hang out here and there.

But as it is my husband and I have each other, semi friendships with a few couples, but they are still busy raising kids and there careers. While we are both on disability.

Earlier I chatting with someone on here I mentioned when I die I’d have 9 ... maybeeee 12 people at most that would come to some kind of service , 4 of that number is my husbands boys and my daughter, I have one brother, 2 aunts that “ might “ physically might make the trip , but they are very old now.

That number is really depressing to consider.

There’s a TV show I love ... New Amsterdam ... anyway one of the key things about the show is a question

“ How can I help ?! “ I wish more people asked each other that and ideas could be thought of to bring people closer.