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Originally Posted by danC1905
Hi Guys, just to answer a few of the questions,
Yes he does pay child support, he pays more than he is even legally required too. He pays for all activities at school and anything they desperately need.
He has a very good job also. He's a Senior Railways Engineer.
My parents don't support me financially, I pay my own way in terms of rent. I buy my own food, and don't ask them for anything other than a roof over my head.
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If you don’t consider living in parents’ house as them supporting you by providing roof above your head then why aren’t you living in your own place? If you are self sufficient and even pay rent, then why aren’t you get a place for yourself and pay rent there? I suspect rent that you pay to your parents (and utilities if you pay them) is Way below market value otherwise you’d move out. You live in their house because it’s cheaper. So they support you financially by providing that
I believe if you want to maintain intimate relationships with men, you then are old enough to support yourself and be on your own.
If you want to be with this man then at the very least move out and live independently. Many parents would support their adult children in hardship but they would look at it differently if their son or daughter spent their energy on romance rather than improving their life snd becoming independent.