He says pregnancy at my age is too high risk. And that he recommends an iud. He sees woman my age pregnant and it's very risky.

The guy I'm seeing doesn't want kids and will choose not to have sex to avoid them so I don't necessarily have to get one. But we all know I want sex so I'm thinking about it. I have til my next period to decide. Should be about a week.

I met with the doctor and said I would get one he said I had to come in at my next period to be sure I wasn't already pregnant. I used condoms.

Anyway I'm half decided, I had some issues with it in the past. I just like being normal. God hasn't gotten me pregnant with my ex boyfriend we tried so I really think the odds are against it but current guy won't take a risk. Even though he says it would be my problem. He'll be dead. He's 57 to my 45.