H knows that I am triggered. I am emotional and highly volatile right now. I know this goes back to around 5th grade where I stopped some developmental things because of trauma. At that time I became very reactive and violent. T accidentally triggered it with the affirmation stuff (at that age I very much did not want to be seen and the affirmation stuff feels hugely invasive.) H doesn’t understand how affirming me can be a trigger but he is angry that T didn’t know it would be a trigger “It’s his job”. *sigh*... so... T is somewhat on the clue bus, I am using my skills to get to my next session Monday and see what we can do... AND... H is pissed. Pissed at T so tonight he makes me look at the background screen on his phone. It is a picture of me he KNOWS is a trigger! He got angry as hell at me when I told him that it was a trigger! So I told him it wasn’t appropriate. Now he is angry as a wet cat but “not” pissed at me, just “F*ing angry as hell he doesn’t know if he is talking to a 3yr old, 8yr old, 5th grade or a 42yr old. So he is screaming at the animals and slamming doors.