I was molested at the age of 5 by a school janitor, sexually assaulted by a cousin at the age of 10. At the age of 18 (graduation night)I have no recollection what so ever, but was date raped. Then at the age of 19 was raped and tried to go through the legal system - but he got off with a slap on the hand due to who he was related to in the small town where it happened.

I'm 46 and still have a lot of difficulties at times. My husband of 21 years has been the most understanding and sensitive man in my life - and he puts up with a lot. I don't believe I have ever been consistent with him when it comes to intimacy - but he continues to stand by me.

As for talking about my experiences - some are easier to discuss then others but I'm working on it...