It's so sad to hear this tory, but of course, it has happened to many other kids over the years. In this metro area, some schools have addressed this by making an informal rule that if there is a birthday party, all classmates are invited or none are invited. Now, obviously, that makes logistics for parents a big deal, but it has helped some school districts.

Does she paint, dance, play an instrument or sing, do any sport, draw, sculpt, like science or astronomy or rocks or anything like that? I like the idea of getting her in some or an activity group or two. That could be a good way to deal with this.

Sending you support and strength. The important thing is that she is kind and good and that means that you have done an excellent job.