Every one does that, talking about themselves , I mean. People listen too, but most of the time they are bursting with things about themselves. Sometimes it is, to get things of their chests and that they are right in the actions they carry out, sometimes just to reassure themselves that they are not alone,not the only ones to feel that way or maybe because it is the only topic no one can ever run out of, to simply keep the conversation going.... I could go on and on.

Often times when you've built up a persona around being self less it seems as if caring for yourself causes too many problems. As hypocritical as it may seem, coming from me, I say go for it. If you can't/don't care for yourself, after some time, life starts becoming rather meaningless.