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Originally Posted by goatee
My T asked me what I would want in terms of contact with her if she were to have surgery. What do you think would be reasonable to ask her for and what have your experiences been? This would be a pretty significant orthopedic surgery. She’d probably be out for 3-6 weeks depending. Thanks.
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My T was out for MONTHS after cancer surgery and a virulent infection which caused complications. At first she let me text with her, but this turned out to be un-doable, since she was so ill. It was a big mess and I didn't really get the chance to talk to her about it, since she was still out. I was depressed for weeks.
When she came back to the office, we talked about it a lot. Every once in a while, I bring it up again.