thanks. Just had a week's respite...I've been working out of town all this week, and the break has been wonderful. 3yr old has been happy (they noted at daycare over a year ago that whenever she has a break from her sister she is much happier and relaxed) and I have had a 'holiday'. I hope that I can schedule in at least 1 more week sometime soon . It probably won't be til our 3rd term (prob about end July) til Chloe gets back into school so it is a long haul.