Quote:
Originally Posted by bpcyclist
"Rarely does a response make something better. What makes something better is connection."
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Yeah, I think I'm missing the connection part of it usually. The vast majority of the time, it feels like I'm mimicking the displays of empathy simply because it's expected of me to do so. Or if I'm feeling especially generous, because I enjoy problem solving and their issues are interesting. Either way, I listen and recognize their emotions, but I don't feel anything in response.
I do think I made a connection with someone, though, so I'm starting to wonder if it's possible.