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Old Jan 29, 2020, 10:07 AM
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Originally Posted by ~Christina View Post
There comes a point where you have to just state your feelings and thoughts about it and Stop .. don’t bring it up again.

If he comes to you complaining you can listen sure or you can change the subject.

It’s all on him to either accept his life with her or decide he has had enough and end it. Maybe he needs to have primary custody of his daughter.
that is exactly what i am doing now, letting it go. i haven't talked to him since this past sunday when all hit the fan, except to touch base monday morn making sure he was ok.

i will always be available for him, and have made him aware that i feel he has 2 choices, stay and live like this for the remainder of his time with her, or leave.

if it comes down to that, i think he has a very good case of gaining full custody of his daughter. but he is no where near that point, yet.

thank you.
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Thanks for this!
~Christina