It seems likely that you would -- at least on some level -- be cautious with this new T since what happened with your last T was so painful. I remember feeling unimpressed and decidedly not attached to my current therapist when I first met her because I felt like she would never be as useful (or as important to me) as my previous therapist. That changed dramatically over time, as I opened up more to her and as we developed a relationship together. I think your feelings about this new therapist are likely to change over time too, and I do think transference might pop up, especially if you stay curious about the reactions you are having to him.
Glad to see you back, and I hope things go well with this new T.
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