There was a traumatic event with one of my children over the weekend. I spent all day yesterday with my child dealing dealing with the police and such and had my regularly scheduled appointment in the evening. In some ways T was great but she also totally missed the mark and made me feel horrible. Near the end of the appointment she apologized and said she had heavily utilized CBT rather than focusing on the pain I was in. I didnt reapond. Some of the the things that she said during the appoinment was not what I needed to her such as she is an adult you cant protect her...even with s toddler you can be in the same room and they can fall and get hurt. Or you need to focus on the fact that it could have been worse, etc, etc.

It really bothered me so last might I wrote an email. Explaining the pain I am feeling as well has mentioned some of her comments and addressed them from my perspective. She doesnt do email. She allows text and phone calls. Do I send her a message today asking of I can send a link to the message and then we can decide if I should have another this week (if even possible) talk on the phone, or at least she can read it l and we can discuss next time but she has it....or do I just wait until next week?