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Old Jan 29, 2020, 08:11 PM
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I'm wondering if people would find anger from a therapist acceptable? This was one of the things that put me off T2, having been shamed, bullied and rejected by T1, T2 said how ''anger is a part of relationships''

I wonder if T1 had NPD and BPD. He seemed to show traits, especially of NPD.

In a link someone sent me, it suggested only consulting a therapist who has been practicing for 10 years or more. I did not

I feel more anxious than I thought I would even contemplating consulting a T again. Grrr at me. But since I was traumatised (I could write a book on it but would rather ''forget'' it ) maybe that is not altogether ''abnormal''

I find it scary that a therapist turned into almost a different person after 3 years.

I have even considered moving locations as I'm not optimistic about how (some?) therapists seem to be trained in this forest.

Maybe I could try an online therapist (but probably not now). That wouldn't be quite as scary for me. Has anyone tried online therapy? (Sorry if I am starting ''too many'' threads. A friend of mine who lives in the same forest was told by a therapist they were ''too much'' I was told similar. )

I can't believe how I let that person wipe his feet on me grrrr. I wonder if I was angry when he was angry with me but have forgotten.

It was hard for me to cry in therapy. It still might be.

A different therapist was civil but did not offer me therapy, giving me the reason that ''uncovering'' things might not be helpful. Ugh. It seems all wrong. Aren't therapists supposed to help the client develop more ''coping skills'' so that uncovering and trauma work can be done without the client becoming overwhelmed. I'm confused by these people. Sigh. Sorry about the rant.

I posted in the physical check in thread but deleted it. Feeling like deleting this too, maybe that shows I ''should'' post it? idk..

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