I'm kinda spamming the check-in thread about my sister, so I apologize for that. I'll just keep my sister's crap in this thread.

Basically, she triggers me. She is manipulative and probably has BPD, but of course "everyone else is the problem," not her. It's "everyone else's fault," never her fault. "Everyone else" needs a therapist. (And yes, she has literally told specific people, like my dad, that they need a therapist for their "problems," which are actually problems caused her HER own problems.)

She tries to guilt trip people all the time as a manipulation tactic to get people to do what she wants. She'll say sh_t like, "You don't love me!" or, "Why don't you care about me?" over simple things like not wanting to go to the store with her. *eye roll*

She plans everything at the last minute and gets mad when no one has time for her. If she gave people advance notice, then maybe people would have time for her??? Then she tries to change people's plans when they say they're busy. For example, "Why don't you want to go to the store with me? It takes like 2 hours. Do you not love me anymore? You obviously have favorite people in your life, and I'm obviously not one of them." WTF.

Sometimes she fake cries, too. She'll start whining and sobbing. Crocodile tears. Yet another manipulation tactic.

My mom is her enabler. She gives her money and all sorts of crap, and she gives in. In fact, apparently my sister is squirreling away $14,000 in her bank account and never told anybody about it except my mom, yet she goes around telling people she doesn't have money and needs money for sh_t. What a liar. She just likes to spend other people's money on sh_t like $400 Gucci belts. I thought she was wasting her own money this whole time, but nope, my mom was giving her money for that crap.

She just agitates me and I'm at my breaking point. My dad doesn't help the situation, either. He gets into fights with my sister (because she picks fights with him), and then they both call me separately telling me why the other is ridiculous and why I should take their side of the story instead of the other. It stresses me out.

Even when I am nice to my sister, she still treats me like dogshit. She b_tches about everything I do when I am trying to be supportive of her. It's like walking on eggshells.