Do you believe your experiences alone can cause you to not have a sex drive or are there conditions or just some people who are born that way? I really have never had one... and I’m not sure how to approach a relationship with this “issue”. It’s not an issue for me.. but it’s an issue for everyone else... and most likely an issue for any partner? It’s something thrown in your face on tv, in music, in books... and i just don’t “get it”.... not sure how to approach this one..