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Originally Posted by Job 30 26
Sounds like you have issues with how you think and feel about porn. I recommend that you both read Sex at Dawn. Women and men are so far apart when it comes to drives and impulses. Let me put this in a gentle way: if you ever have a son, and he comesbacross the internet, and randomly comea to enjoy a certain kink--because sex is the most complicated and varied thing about humankind--would you publicly shame your own son, and have that stain on him for the rest of his life? All it takes to start the public shaming is for you to knock over the first domino and a field of fire will burn like a scourge, all because you feel and think differently aboit something as menial as what was going on in tje privacy, that went no further than him with computed screen.
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Job I’m not sure who you’re talking to about issues with porn. If you look at the dsmv about sex addiction and the criteria you may have a better understanding of the mental health definitions of that issue. It doesn’t sound like you have been educated on the subject. And you know nothing about myself or anyone else or how they personally feel about porn. I am speaking about the actual criteria of porn or sex addiction, which I AM professionally trained in.
As for his activities being private and not anythung beyond a computer screen. There is a HUGE difference between looking at women who have agreed to having sexual images of them portrayed for other people’s sexual gratification and women who are unknowingly being undressed and images created that are as real looking on the screen as ones taken of actual women doing those acts willingly WITHOUT THEIR KNOWLEDGE OR CONSENT.
It is voyeurism , looking at a woman with out her consent and not knowing Someone is looking at you that way. If you think that is harmless then you perhaps suffer from the same male attitudes that make you believe these things are ok , to violate women, exploit them and all without their knowledge or consent for a mans own selfish sexual gratification needs. That is not ok, there’s plenty of legitimate porn out there with women who are doing so willingly that one does not need to put a friends image on a screen and undress her. I’m sorry you perhaps can’t understand. The difference or why that’s a personal violation of her.