Hi plynstrom266, Did he reject you? That may be a huge reason why you are obsessing over him. I have found that rejection makes the rejecter seem better than they actually are to the rejected person. It creates an illusion.

In terms of sexting and over texting, you made a mistake and we've all thrown ourselves at someone at one time or another. It sounds impulsive (no judgment from me) and a good therapist can help you sort this all out.

Hang in there, ok?