Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years. Our honeymoon phase lasted a bit longerr than most.. I have a tendency to be overly clingy.. They’re 7 days in a week and we’ve been around each other the entire 7 days (outside of work) eventually that stopped because to many arguments and petty fights began so we decided lets just physically see each other 3 days and the other we can just talk on the phone..

BUT even with us agreeing to that he still would come and see me (sometimes to get me from work) so we ended up in a disagreement & he says he doesn't want to talk to me everyday all day he wants time to miss me... but that hurt my feelings because I feel like I’m dating to marry & I’ve told him that he didn't have to come all the time and he still would ...

fast forward to this past week his phone blacked out.. so he went to my work place to let me know but I wasn't there, he comes to my home to let me know .. then the next day he calls me from his house phone to ask wether I had to be to work , the day after he comes to my home before I had to be to work ... but today I haven’t heard from him at all . its ways he still could have contacted me but he didn’t which makes me feel like he doesn’t care to talk to me ... YESS a day without talking isn’t much but it only takes 10 seconds to say “im just checking in”

He’ll always come with the same excuse the day after “I was tired from work” or “I fell asleep” but I don’t know wether he is tired of me or just plainly manipulating me... its REALLY starting to become a consistency thing .. couple days he’s doing good then the next day he’ll make me feel bad for even wanting his attention..

I don’t know how to deal