he is going to start once school starts. he doesnt have insurance right now and he's going back for his MBA this fall. so then hell have insurance through the school and he can go to counseling. he has all kinds of anxiety and dependency problems. at least now he sees it so hes backed off a bit and hasnt been smothering me. and ever since he clamed down a little with the affection i havent felt like i liked anyone so i think it was just me freaking out a bit.