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Old Jan 31, 2020, 04:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Rohag View Post
1. Rude communication
2. Regret
3. Apology
4. Continued or even intensified regret, self-thrashing

One would think (?) that #3 would reduce the feelings of guilt and regret, but so frequently they do not. This reflects my personal experience, too.

I am perplexed at how my mind and emotions work.
Also there are some ''individuals'' who refuse to accept a sincere apology I think such individuals usually share a certain cluster of traits... and yes there were many of them in the FOO - ''family'' of origin

much love and respect to all on the bus
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