I have not been attending meetups much lately. But last Sunday I attended a meetup, mostly to talk to an acquaintance from before. I do not mind talking with him just to chat, but there was a mini idiotic incident that happened too.

Some woman in her 50s introduced herself to me, started asking me about my job then started to criticise me for my job. Then she blurted out, "This is my first time at this meetup, so I lost my meetup virginity." A woman in her 60s next to her overheard her and said, "Well, if you are like me, you are going through a drought and you become a born-again virgin. I need to lose my virginity again!" Then the first women said, "I only lost my virginity once, but sometimes I guess you gotta lose it over and over." Then addressing me, asked me, "So, how you doin' in that area? Gotta lose your virginity again and again too?" I just replied, "Yeah, I don't know", quickly got up and left.

It is close to unbelieveable if I tell this to anyone from somewhere else. I cannot believe how people, especially grown adults who are more on the elderly side can bring up these topics with strangers. At the same time it seems like people somehow have magic vision and can see that I have no relationship or sexual experience.