Basically, I just want to see how far from the norm I am with regards to this.

I enjoy arguing, and I deliberately seek out relationships (romantic or otherwise) that are somewhat antagonistic. I try to keep this somewhat healthy by finding likeminded individuals to argue with, and being respectful of those who don't wish to argue. But lately I've been wondering if the people who seem to enjoy arguing actually do, or if they're just putting up with my toxic garbage personality for some other reason, like they're too nice to tell me off or something.