So I'm 2 months into a breakup that's tearing me apart because of my codependent traits. She is narcissistic and now that I'm used up financially and emotionally she left me to live with her daughter 3 hours away from me and I am going out of my mind. She had told me that we could work on things maybe if I moved there so I start making plans. Then she gets me to Loan her money a week ago being very nice and understanding. Now she wont pay it back and I need it and is restricting our communications. She text me tonight that she was getting a home massage and then going out to dinner. She is seeing someone I believe already and it is tearing me apart inside. I am going crazy thinking about her being with someone else and I dont know how to stop it. PLEASE SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME TIPS ON WHT TO DO TO MAKE IT STOP. BEFORE I DO SOMETHING STUPID LIKE DRIVE DOWN THERE.